About Me

Connor McGonigal is a researcher in fetishes and paraphilias, author of ‘The Psychology Behind The Cuckold Fetish’, and probably the world’s leading expert on the psychology of the cuckold fantasy (but there isn’t a lot of competition!).

A few years ago, I realised just how many people were like I was: unhappy with their fetish and wanting to change. I had studied this area for many years before that, but realised that this knowledge hardly exists in the public domain – it’s hidden away in studies and journals and books that aren’t written for the public (mostly). In fact, the public information is so poor that the internet is filled with misinformation and speculative opinions, with hardly any studies backing them up.

I started sharing some of this on an online forum and was shocked at the huge response to these posts and started to get messages asking for more. It seemed that there was actually a lot of demand, but people were just ashamed to admit it and ashamed to ask! Eventually, after sharing a lot, I got asked to do 1-on-1 personal coaching over email for a fee, and I discovered that this was such a common problem!

Soon the demand became too much – and that’s how this website started. With the initial aim of streamlining the email coaching process, this soon evolved into a place to teach everyone at once – as it’s far more efficient that way.

Not only that, but most of the information on the internet is simply opinions and random thoughts, with little backing it up. There are too many uninformed blog posts and hardly any collections of scientific evidence. I wanted to bring this evidence-based approach to the public.

My blog posts do this for the masses, and anyone who’s particularly interested can take a look at my online course.

Thanks for coming to my little corner of the internet. I hope it helps you.